Holy wisdom confounds Satan and all his wickednesses.

Pure, holy simplicity confounds all the wisdom of this world and the wisdom of the flesh.

Holy humility confounds pride and all the men of this world and all things that are in the world.

Yes, sex is troublesome and beautiful. And only when we drop our expectations, and know that we'll have moments of great sex and moments when our sexuality confounds, pains, or infuriates us, will we be liberated to enjoy it in a way that's true to ourselves.