My mom cleaned toilets for a long time, and she'd seen a lot of terrible things, but she was still the strength of our family. And there are women like that all across the country - all around the world - who show that type of fortitude.

My favorite affirmation when I feel stuck or out of sorts is: Whatever I need is already here, and it is all for my highest good. Jot this down and post it conspicuously throughout your home, on the dashboard of your car, at your office, on your microwave oven, and even in front of your toilets!

There is nothing like scrubbing toilets for a living to make you question the choices you have made in life.

We were called The Toilets originally - we were flushed with success.

I can install toilets. I know all about the wax ring. I can tile floors. I'm learning how to do basic wiring.